So the question is...how long should a man wait before having sex with a woman he is dating? We can take this question and twist it a million ways and add a million reasons to make it tailor the person you pose it to. Well take this is into consideration...if the person wants to lay it down with you on the first or second date...they knew it when they met you. Why is that you ask? Because everything is physical at first sight and based off the "sight" of the person is what "attracted" you to the thought of getting in the bed with them to start with. Love at first sight...try lust at first sight is what we really want to express. It all boils down to knowing and understanding that before you get to the sack, you want to make sure that this won't have you wishing you never looked in the direction of lust in the first place.
Think about this...the odds that a woman will have sex with a man on the first date is 1 out of 6.06 and that was in 2009! Can you imagine what it is now with the inundation of sex by the media? The rise in teen pregnancies and single black women and mothers is on the rise and the main catalyst to this is that there is no real value on sex anymore at all. We don't court women or try to get to know THEM before we try to get in THEM which is the key to a lasting relationship and quite frankly the key to cultivating anything to begin with. If a woman wants you, chances are she will have you unless there was no real attraction to begin with or you happened to meet on E-Harmony and you met her representative rather the real person lol. Either way it goes fellas...if you really like and value the possibility of meeting that special women, look deeper than her boobs and into her heart. She will give you the sex when her heart tells you that she thinks you are ready to handle it. Just in case we haven't noticed, women use their hearts a little more and that is the reason they are not as quick as we are to jump in the sack. On that note...let the next compliment you pay that woman you just met relate to her shoes or nice bag...anything not related to a body part you are fixated on. Remember she already knows you want to have sex with her...tonight.
Until the next post.....Peace and Blessings