I always wonder why people even ask a potential or already engaged partner how many other sexual partners they have had. Like honestly of what relevance is that in your feelings for this person. Does that mean they are only in it for sex with you if the number is what you may consider high? Or does it mean that you may like them even more because they have only slept with two before you? Either way it goes everyone will still have their preference at the end of the day and only your true feelings will count anyway. Think about it...if you were about to get married and your fiance asks you how many people you slept with and it is a considerable amount, do you think he or she will walk away? If so you may not have know your true love like you thought you did.
I often think that if someone is not in a relationship and therefore has nobody to answer to, it is quite hard to believe that they are at home twiddling their thumbs or taking cold showers every night to quench the urge. They are out with their girlfriends or their boys and they are hitting the town to see if any cute guys or gals happen to cross their path for an unsuspecting night of pleasure. You would be surprised how it happens. If a woman meets a guy whose number is 100... do you think 50 of those only slept with him? Of course not! They slept with him since he was a one night stand, and might have had a few more. Nobody is perfect and everyone male or female has their urges.
So the next time you think about judging or labeling someone who may be your real true love due to a really irrelevant question where the heart is concerned, ask yourself if his number is low and he cheated would you take him back? If your answer truly is yes...his NUMBER shouldn't matter.
Until next post...if you gonna DO IT...wrap it up. Safe sex is the best sex and should be the only sex until....marriage.
Peace and Love
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